Nude, Naked, Sex, Me

depiction of nudity

depiction of nudity (Photo credit: dunikowski)

Nude is something I don’t think about. Nude is waking up from a tent, or a cabin and being able to leave without a stitch. I haven’t found many places like that though I have found a couple. I visited Club Orient in St Martin a few times, where waking up to the sound of the beach, then being able to walk from your cabin to breathe in the fresh air, look at the sun, walk up to water, but that’s where I stop. The water is cold in the morning and I can wake up without the shock of cold water.
 White Tail in Virginia flipped me out. Winnebagos, tents, popups, and every other imaginable sleep thing on the ground plus nude people in everywhere. I thought it was cool that kids where there and not once did not seem like a church picnic. My two sons were with their cousin and me. I think they had the better time. Anyway, Whitetail, of the three times I went, all made the feelings of oneness and nudity a real breath of fresh air.
Naked
Naked, is when my sister snubs her nose or ask me to put clothes on. Naked, is the doctor whose holding a carving knife in one hand a big grin and a “don’t worry, it’ll be okay” comment. Naked is, friends who are uncomfortable with either themselves, sexuality or what they believe is normal, make comments about being naked. Naked is the police officer that paraded me through a crowd without clothes.
Yes, I understand the … don’t pay em any mind but it’s not always that easy. For example my mom could care less, my dad however thinks its sex, so, put the clothes on is his comment. Comments, snickers, etc. … just make me uncomfortable and I don’t want to nude/naked around people just for the sake of saying I’M a NUDIST, LOOK WORLD … I’m NAKED. …. BS. I’m bigger than the phonies.
Sex
On the other hand, there is sex. Being nude isn’t an opportunity to discuss what we want sexually so why people take it there is a surprise to me. It has gotten so, that I don’t know what to think of as a nudist web site. Hey, … I like sex just as much as the next person, I find people attractive from everywhere. So, how does one find a group or crowd, perhaps friend without the other crap? I dont know. Most people, or those that I’ve met, don’t believe in bisexual, they think it means uncommitted to one sex or the other. I used to care about sexuality, so I tried to fit into one or the other but it doesn’t work. I am what I am.
It took a while for me to feel comfortable in this suit but I have finally reached it a level of comfort that I can call myself bisexual and be okay. I wish that I felt that way 30 years ago. My 16 year old son taught me you are what you are, and that’s it. Dr. Seuss says, “Be who you are, say what you feel, those who matter dont mind, those that mind don’t matter” I suppose it can also be applied to non-nudist and sex.”Although he never said it, my son demonstrated his own beliefs without thinking twice. No, he’s not Gay, but if he where, he wouldn’t give it any more thought then I would to being nude. Then too … look around. Young People are no longer hiding behind anything.
That’s it. Leave nudity out of the sexuality equation.
Guest blogger Jose blogs at Naked Sailor

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