Nudist examiner Dalton calls out libertine tumblr for being more swinger than nudist


Ignorance apparently bliss for some ‘nudists‘ 

Last week while perusing the web I happened across a rather appalling example of a “nudist” blog hosted at the microblogging and social networking website Tumblr. I had long believed that there no longer existed anything at Tumblr that could possibly surprise me yet I was proven wrong by the discovery of Libertine Nudist Couple.

Beyond simply the title, the curators of this particular blog clearly identify themselves as “nudists” in the very first sentence of their introductory boiler plate information –

We are a nudist couple and have no shame about nudity and sexuality: we like sex in public, on the beach and around our nude pool, we love group sex and swinging.”


Read more at Larry Dalton’s Nudist examiner site 
Curator’s Note: Raises the important question of what makes a nudist. This is one reason we prefer the use of the term clothes free. 
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2 Comments
  1. naturistsholiday 3 years ago

    Reblogged this on Naturist Holidays in Europe.

  2. hontouniheart 3 years ago

    I’m so glad this gentleman wrote this article. I appreciate his separation of the issues and that he is clear that he is not judging the swinging lifestyle one way or the other, because I’ve seen some people get defensive about it and make the same general statements that nudists are judgmental prudes. He is very clear that it’s not about judgment. It’s about being honest, precise and clear about what’s being represented.

    I’m still new to this. But let me say, sexuality wasn’t a foreign concept to me before I stepped into my clothes free life last fall. It just is what it is. There is nothing novel about it. Honestly. It’s in the freaking movies and books. But you know what’s NOT being talked about? A clothes free LIFE. That’s what people don’t get right now, that is the time in which we currently live. People get sex (although everyone has their opinions). But they don’t get a person simply being clothes free. That’s the current education that needs to happen. That’s one reason why clothes free people don’t harp on sex. It’s simply doesn’t do anything to move the conversation forward and shift societal perspectives. It’s just more of the same.

    For me, clothes free life is in fact clothes free LIFE. It’s about who I am being everyday. I wake up and have my tea clothes free. Sometimes I work clothes free at the office when circumstances allow. I play my viola clothes free. I practice yoga clothes free. It is, in fact, my LIFE.

    Here’s another thing that I really need to say, for real; it came up as I started opening up and sharing my clothes free life with my mom and with one of my female friends nearby. Here’s the other reason why all the sex talk and even the comments that lead in that direction need to stop: some people who are either witnessing this lifestyle through a loved one or stepping into for themselves are coming from sensitive backgrounds. I’m talking abuse. Sexual abuse. For some that is where deep pains and issues come from in the first place. For some it is a major reason they’ve hidden and locked up. People very close and very dear to me were sexually abused. People called them “beautiful” and “pretty” and then straightaway took advantage of them before they had a license to drive. Some before they got to middle school. So conflating sex with clothes free conversations doesn’t do a darn thing for them. If me and one of these loved ones of mine went somewhere that claimed to be “nudist” and actually turned out to be a bunch of people easing up on us with “ooooo beautiful yeahhhhhh” that would actually freak us out. That would only take that loved one back to those times when someone pretending to be safe turned out to be trouble. It’s not helpful. It needs to stop.

    What has been blessing the women close to me who have seen me in the flesh is that I’m just going about my day, washing dishes, reading, writing emails, doing yoga, chatting…doing all the every day SAFE usual stuff in my skin. That’s what blesses them, because they literally didn’t know this was possible. That’s what makes them feel safe. That’s what is healing them. They’ve told me so.

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